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Some people like porn stars, go-go dancers and show offs love being watched and get some sexual thrill out of being an exhibitionist, and generally those who like being seen come in all shapes, sizes and genders.


PREVIOUS TALKING ABOUT SEX

Top men and their bottoms
"Bottom" and "top" is as confusing as "active" and "passive" which is why. Simon Sheppard follows a different route and asks who does what to whom?

Leather men
Marlon Brando was probably one of the first movie stars to popularise leather clothes as a lifestyle statement that is somewhat anti-establishment, and while "leather sex" is slightly different from bondage and S&M, they sometimes they blur. Simon Shepard explains about leather culture.

Bunch of wankers
Mutual masturbation is still the safest type of sex there is, but the ritual has its origins in the circle jerk that boys get into in high school, and they are not always all gay boys either. Simon Shepard explores mutual masturbation

Bunch of wankers
Mutual masturbation is still the safest type of sex there is, but the ritual has its origins in the circle jerk that boys get into in high school, and they are not always all gay boys either. Simon Shepard explores mutual masturbation

Bondage
When it comes to paraphernalia, bondage leads the list. The practitioner of restraint can drop a large bankroll on the bondage gizmos. Simon Sheppard goes shopping for bondage toys.

Lube job
In olden days they used Vaseline, then came KY, and then came safer sex and a whole new science of lubrication.
Simon Sheppard says no to oil

Are you a wanker?
Almost all cultures and sexual persuasions have quaint terms and mythologies surrounding the act of relieveing sexual tension on your own and the Bible even has a few ideas on the subject. Simon Shepard investigates masturbation.

Gaydar
You and your supposedly straight friend are showering at the gym, his wet, naked body just a few feet from yours, suds coursing down his crotch. And he gives you a look - that look... or maybe he doesn't. Simon Sheppard on the fine art of knowing what to look for

S&M
Why is it that we hardly ever fanaticise about "vanilla" sex? Simon Sheppard investigates the masochistic side of sadism

Deep throat
The quaint term was immortalised by a 70s hetero skin flick, yet everybody knows what it means even if they haven't seen the film. Simon Sheppard probes [02/06/00]

Dildos
Anybody can now buy a dildo modelled on the famous porn strar's penis, or if you don't like the the one with veins and a foreskin you could always settle for the Jelly Tots-looking numbers that come in a stupendous range of shapes and sizes... explains Simon Sheppard [17/05/00]


GENERAL HEALTH
Gays with Internalized Homophobia Part I [Oct 19, '99]
Gays with Internalized Homophobia Part II [Oct 19, '99]
Sex and long-term relationships [99/10/07]
Homophobia: the fear that kills [26/08/99]
Gay men are six times more likely to attemp suicide [07/09/99]
Male rape: Men who suffer in silence [Jul 23, '99]
Why the closet is bad for your immune system [Jan 21, '99]
Negative thinking and self-undermining [Jan 1, '99]
Loneliness in the big city [May 5, '00]
Queer-battered-by-queer syndrome [Mar 20, '00]

TALKING ABOUT SEX
Sex with heterosexual men [00/03/03]
From femidoms to flavoured condoms [00/02/24]
Does size really count? [00/01/21]
Porn from grandpa's closet [00/01/13]
Sex in strange places [99/12/10]
Masters and slaves: S&M for beginners [99/12/02]
Sex, lies and the internet [99/11/25]
Poor man's viagra: Cock rings [99/11/15]
Cheap thrills: Poppers [99/11/05]
Intergenerational [99/10/11]
2000 years of cruising [99/10/18]
Intersexuality [13/08/99]
No fats/fems, GWM seeks same [Nov 11, '98]
Nipple sex [Apr 28, '00]
Kinky sex [Mar 29, '00]

CULCHA
Joburg gets a free club guide [00/02/24]
Are you "queer" or "gay"? [00/01/17]
Cape Pink Map in second edition [00/01/25]
Free publications [00/01/25]
Schenkenberg, the Cape interview [99/10/08]
Fashion Week: A fetish for frocks [Sept 16, '99]
Diesel the mother of reinvention [Sept 28, '99]
Fashion Week: Style and substance [Aug 26, '99]
Gaultier on fashion and Madonna [Dec 1, '98]
Jean-Paul Gaultier on being gay [03/12/98]
What makes cult? Queer? [May 12, '00]
The "T" in GLBT [Apr 28, '00]

FINANCE
Discovery medical aid tops [00/02/01]
Metropolitan Life on investments [99/11/18]
Consumer Aunty does some numbers [Feb 26, '99]
Gay Inetrnet radio for SA [May 16, '00]
Rainbows, stickers and pins: Family business [Apr 10, '00]

COMMUNITY
Togs backpackers doing it naturally [00/03/23]
Teacher: "A day in my life" [Aug 11, '99]
Cape Town's Graaf's Pool stays [Jun 22, '99]
Why not Mr Queer? (pageants) [Feb 2, '99]

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